Simple Nourishing Chicken Broth | Low Histamine

This low histamine chicken broth recipe makes a perfect, nourishing base for soups. It can also be added into casseroles, rice dishes, gravies or anything really, it’s very versatile.

When we first started down a path of gut healing for our children with food allergies, all the information was screaming out that bone broth was going to do wonderful things for their health. But many recipes failed to point out that meat stock and bone broth were two different things.

Meat Stock or bone broth?

Broth is bones with no meat, and water, usually cooked for 12 – 24 hours, sometimes longer, depending on the type of bones. This long slow cook produces histamine, and is generally not recommended for anyone beginning their gut healing journey. All of my kids reacted to any moderate or high histamine foods, including bone broth. You can imagine my surprise and confusion when I saw that they were reacting to what was supposed to be a very gentle and nourishing food. Thankfully, you can make something that is just as nourishing and recommended for the beginning of your healing journey, and that is meat stock. Technically meat stock is joint bones, with meat on (not necessarily all the meat) simmered for a few hours, with or without added vegetables.

This chicken broth recipe is a cross between meat stock and bone broth – depending on your need you can change up the bones to include joint bones (more collagen) bones with meat, or bones without. I have made it using only bones, but keeping it short cook and it has worked great as well. To make it even lower histamine, cook in a pressure cooker for 30 mins to 1 hour – the faster the cook, the more histamine friendly it is. This is how I cook it every time now.

If you would like to make the soup pictured with your broth, you can find the recipe here. If you would like more info on meat stock, bone broth and how it works for healing you can find that here.

Simple Nourishing Chicken Broth

This low histamine chicken broth recipe makes a perfect, nourishing base for soups. It can also be added into casseroles, rice dishes, gravies or anything really, it's very versatile.
Prep Time10 mins
Cook Time4 hrs
Course: dinner, Main Course, Soup
Cuisine: Gluten free
Keyword: broth, chicken broth, chicken stock, coconut free, dairy free, easy recipe, egg free, gluten free, grain free, main, main meal, nut free, paleo, soup, soy free, stock

Ingredients

  • 1 chicken carcass from a leftover roast chicken or bones from chicken wings / legs / thighs etc.
  • Enough water to cover the bones this will depend on the size of your chicken usually around 1L of water – filtered is best
  • A couple cloves of garlic omit the garlic if you’d like to sneak the broth into things like smoothies and ice blocks 😉
  • Optional: Leftover vegetable peelings, carrot or parnsip tops, celery stalks, and herbs.

Instructions

  • In a large stock pot, slow cooker or pressure cooker, cover the chicken bones with water.

Slow cook:

  • Set on high for 4 hours.

Pressure cook:

  • Set to pressure cook following your cookers directions, for 1 hour.

Stock pot:

  • Simmer on low in your stock pot for 3 – 4 hours. Keep an eye that it doesn't overflow, or reduce too much. You want the simmer to be enough to cook the bones but not so much that it's boiling.

  • Once the time is up, strain the liquid from the broth through a sieve into a large bowl or container. Discard the bones and garlic and keep the liquid. Pour it into a container, i usually use a glass jar. It keeps in the fridge for up to a week, especially if it remains sealed under a layer of fat on top. Or you can freeze it. I use my silicone muffin tray to freeze in blocks which I can take our and use as needed.
  • If you'd like to drink the broth as is, then add some salt, herbs, ginger, turmeric and garlic to taste, before heating and serving. Otherwsie you can use it as a soup base, to cook rice and pasta in, add to casseroles, curries, mince and stews. If you have it unflavoured you can even add it to smoothies and ice blocks!

How to eat healthy on a budget | gluten and dairy free food for family of 5 $150 a week.

So last week I set myself a challenge. To feed my family of 5, healthy, gluten and dairy free breakfast, lunch, dinner and snacks for $150! And I bet you are wondering … did I do it? How did it go? Was it hard? The short answer is yes, we did it. It wasn’t anywhere near as hard as I thought it would be. And with the food I have left over at the end of the week, I would say our food bill has actually come in at under $150!

This is everything we got this week – total: $146.68 – at the end of the week we still had a can of coconut cream, half a packet of peas and corn, some crackers, most of the bag of popcorn kernels, some almonds, half a bag of gluten free flour and some apples, dates and peanut butter left over. There is an exact list of everything I purchased at the end of this post.

Everyone was fed well all week and I didn’t have to spend too much time in the kitchen. Can you do it too? well that might depend, on the age of your kids, where you have available to shop, whats in season and how much time you have to put towards meal prep. The more time you have, the more money you will save!

Here are our particular circumstances –

  • We are a family of 5 – two adults and three children 8 and under. It’s the middle of winter and none of us are living a particularly active lifestyle right now, so we are not requiring a huge amount of extra energy from our food. I still feel like we eat a lot of food, compared to others, especially at dinner, so my servings sizes are quite liberal.
  • I shopped online at our local Countdown so I could see exactly how much I was spending. We don’t have a Pack n Save or a fruit and veggie shop here, so countdown is our most cost effective option. Choose your most cost effective options to maximise the amount you can save.
  • This shop didn’t include toiletries, nappies, or coffee (gasp!) however, given the food we have leftover I think these could be included easily and still keep close to budget. I will write another post for tips on how to save money on these items and general strategies on how to save money on your food bill, especially when you are dealing with food allergies.

If you are interested in trying this out here’s what I did with the money this week. If you would like general tips on how to keep your grocery bill as low as possible I will include general tips on how to achieve this in another post (which I will link here as soon as its done!) – in the mean time, this post here has some tips you might find helpful, I wrote this a few years ago, so not all of it is relevant to our situation right now.

Healthy Gluten and Dairy free Breakfasts

a list of healthy, gluten and dairy free Breakfasts:
gluten free toast
eggs
smoothies
homemade muesli with almond milk
easy potato hash browns
pancakes
Feeding my family of 5 $150 for 7 days 
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We got our bread from Venerdi on-line, it was only $3.99 a loaf! I went in with the friend and we shared the shipping. I brought 3 loaves so that will last us 3 weeks.

How do we make 1 loaf of gluten free bread last 3 kids for a week!? I offered them one piece of toast with breakfast and added other things (preferably fats and proteins) to make it go further. This week they had peanut butter on their toast and scrambled eggs. Other times with their toast, they have baked beans, avocado or a smoothie loaded with healthy fats. They don’t have toast every morning.

Two mornings I made them hash browns in the waffle iron instead. I made double batch and reheated them in the oven or toaster the next morning, and served them with poached eggs. They also had pancakes for breakfast in the weekend. I didn’t end up making the muesli, I used the nuts and seeds I brought, in their smoothies instead. On a budget and being gluten and dairy free, sandwiches are just not a cost effective option so we include other filling lunch options instead.

I reached out to a bunch of fellow gluten and dairy free foodies on Facebook to share their go – to gluten and dairy free breakfast ideas, I have picked out their budget friendly options to share here:

  • rice flakes from the gluten free cereal section – make them like porridge and add some protein and fats like peanut butter, seeds and coconut milk + seasonal fruit.
  • banana pancakes – basically a mashed banana and 2 eggs – have a recipe for this here, use the variations to suit your budget.
  • rice pudding – pre cooked rice simmered in milk of your choice until warm, you can add fruit or nuts and seeds.
  • Eggs with roast veggies, or rice instead of toast
  • homemade baked beans using tinned beans of choice, tinned tomatoes, salt pepper and a dash of something sweet. Heat together then add whatever else to jazz it up – chopped spinach, chorizo or sausage, onions or mushrooms.
  • potato hash – basically leftover veggies fried with whatever else you can find. My kids love this and I find a single rasher of bacon or sausage can go a long way adding flavour.
  • If you can tolerate oats (my kids can) then this is great cost effective option – we make honey cinnamon porridge by cooking the oats with a teaspoon cinnamon, honey, coconut oil (for healthy fats). Top with dairy free milk, banana and peanut butter or nuts and seeds.

Simple gluten and dairy free Pancakes

Prep Time10 mins
Cook Time15 mins
Servings: 5 people

Ingredients

  • 2 cups gluten free flour
  • 2 teaspoons baking powder
  • 2 eggs (seperate the yolks and whites)
  • 1 ½ cups milk (almond milk, coconut milk or whatever dairy free milk you use)

Instructions

  • Seperate the yolks and the whites of the eggs.
  • Beat the egg whites until they form stiff peaks.
  • Add the milk to the egg yolks and stir to combine.
  • Now sift the dry ingredients on top of the yolks and milk and stir carefully to ensure you don't get too many lumps.
  • Add the whites to the rest of the pancake batter and gently fold together to keep them light and fluffy.
  • Heat a pan on medium and lightly brush with oil. When the pan is hot add 1/4 cup of batter to make each pancake. When bubbles start to form on the top, flip the pancakes over and remove when browned on the bottom. You may need to turn the heat down further on your pan after a few pancakes, depending on the type of pan you use and your type of element.
  • Place on a baking rack while you cook the rest, or into a heated oven to keep warm.
  • Serve with peanut butter, whipped coconut cream, nuts, seeds or frozen berries.

Smoothies:

In my smoothies I usually included banana, coconut cream (I froze a can of coconut cream in an ice cube tray to use throughout the week instead of using expensive tetra pack dairy free milks), water, peanut butter, seeds like pumpkin seeds or sunflower seeds. The coconut cream provides fats which help to keep us feeling full and satisfied after a meal. The peanut butter provides fats and protein, which also helps to keep us full. And is a great source of energy for active kids. The seeds do this also, as well as provide lots of vitamins. The banana helps the texture and sweetness of the smoothie and offers a great energy source for active kids too.

I would never give my kids a smoothie for part of a meal without adding healthy fats or protein, or they will just be hungry again soon after. You can also add oats if they tolerate these.

Typical smoothie to serve 3 kids:

  • 1/4 cup coconut cream (frozen into ice cubes)
  • 1 cup water
  • 1 large banana (also frozen)
  • 2 Tablespoons peanut butter
  • 1/4 cup nuts or seeds

Lunches and Snacks

A list of healthy Gluten and dairy free lunches and snacks
crackers and hummus
organic corn thins with spread
popcorn, salami, mini quiche bites, fruit (apple, kiwi fruit, mandarin, banana), bliss balls, smoothies, muffins. Adult lunches: eggs and leftovers, roast veggies. 
Feeding my family of 5 $150 for 7 days 
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Lunches – these were mostly lunchboxes. On days that the kids didn’t require lunchboxes I gave them an assortment of what was on the list pictured above, or eggs or roast veggies from my own plate.

You can find my muffin recipe, bliss balls recipe and hummus recipe on my blog. The mini quiche recipe is from my lunchbox planner ebook.

Hubby and I had leftovers from dinner, or eggs and roast veggies.

Here is what the food looks like in a lunchbox or served as snacks.

Sometimes looks can be deceiving. In this lunchbox there is 3/4 cup popcorn, two muffins, 1/4 stick of salami, 1/3 cup peas and corn, 1/2 an apple, a bliss ball and an egg. Put this out on a dinner plate and the whole thing is chocka! Not enough for a teenager, but a lot of good quality, real food for a hungry child.

Healthy Gluten and dairy free Dinner

A list of Healthy gluten and dairy free Dinners:
Roast chicken and roast veggies with gravy,
chicken and veggie soup,
mince chow mein with rice noodles,
chicken Thai red curry and rice,
cottage pie,
chicken wings with greens and rice
frittata with roast veg
Feeding my family of 5 $150 for 7 days 
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I based our dinner list on what was on special at the supermarket this week. (Bit of a chicken overload ha ha) but could easily sub the chicken for chickpeas in the curry to save even more money. My family are not a fan of legumes unless they are very well hidden in mince, baking or hummus! Chicken wings / drums or nibbles as well as whole roast chicken are super budget friendly choices. Pork leg is usually a really good price too, if I didn’t get a whole chicken, I would have got a pork leg and slow cooked it to make pulled pork instead.

All these dinners are of course healthy, gluten and dairy free. Also most are egg free apart from the frittata, when we were egg free, I would replace that with a slow cooked curry using a cheap cut of beef.

The roast chicken was definitely the most cost effective as I used the chicken carcass to make a broth, and then used leftover chicken and the broth in a chicken soup. The soup fed us all for dinner, and then hubby and I for 4 lunches (2 days each). So all up the roast chicken fed us for 6 meals! It was a size 23 chicken and it only cost $9.

Roast Chicken and Vegetables with Real Homemade Gravy

This easy to prepare roast chicken and vegetables, with real homemade gravy is so easy to prepare. An allergy friendly, family favourite meal. Use the leftover chicken bones to make a nourishing broth to use afterwards.
Prep Time30 mins
Cook Time2 hrs
Course: dinner
Cuisine: Gluten free
Keyword: chicken, coconut free, dairy free, egg free, gluten free, grain free, gravy, homemade gravy, main, main meal, paleo, roast, roast chicken
Servings: 6 People

Ingredients

  • 4 carrots
  • 8 potatoes
  • 1/3 pumpkin
  • 4 mushrooms
  • 5 cloves garlic
  • 1 head broccoli (about 2 cups)
  • 1/2 head cauliflower (about 2 cups)
  • 1 size 18 – 24 chicken (size 18 feeds my family of 5 with leftovers – size 20+ does us for at least 2 meals)

Instructions

  • Preheat oven to 200°c fan bake.
  • Peel and dice the potatoes, carrot and pumpkin into similar sized chunks. Cut the mushrooms into ¼'s. Place them all with the garlic into a large roasting dish. Drizzle with oil and sprinkle with salt.
  • Rub the skin of the chicken with salt and pepper. You can cook in the slow cooker then finish in the oven to crisp, or just in the oven. Follow the instructions for each option below.

Chicken: Slow cook and finish in oven:

  • I slow cook ours 6 hours on high from frozen – if it’s thawed slow cook for 6-8 hours on low. These time may depend on your individual slow cooker and the size of your chicken. We have a special little rack in our cooker so the chicken doesn’t boil in the liquid at the bottom and steams instead. I don’t add any water. Just the seasoned chicken.
  • Once the chicken is cooked through I take it out to rest, save the cooking water for your gravy! Turn the oven up to high (220°c). Then place the chicken on a tray and into the oven to crisp it up for about 10-15 minutes, or until it’s browned all over. Save any juice that drips out for your gravy.
  • Once browned, take the chicken out to rest for 15 minutes.

Chicken: Oven bake:

  • Place your chicken on a roasting tray, and place into the middle of the oven for 1 hour and 40 minutes for a size 18 chicken. (Add an extra 20 minutes per 500 grams if your chicken is bigger). To check the chicken is cooked, poke a squewer into the thigh, the juices should run clear.

The vegetables

  • Allow one hour for your roast veggies and gravy to be ready for the table. If oven baking the chicken, after the chicken has been in the oven for 1 hour, place prepped veggies in the rack below the chicken to roast for 30 minutes. Or, if your chicken is cooking elsewhere, place in the oven in the middle.
  • After 30 minutes, take the vegetables out, scrape them with a spatula and toss them around. If you give them a good shove around and break them up a little, you will get yummy little roast crispy bits. Place back in the oven for another 15 minutes then check and toss again. Remove them when everything is cooked through, browned and crisp around the edges. This could take anywhere from 45 mins to 1 hour all up, depending on your oven.
  • While the vegetables are cooking, cut the broccoli and cauli into florets, and set aside. Either steam or boil them in water until they are just tender. (Usually about 4-minutes once the water is rolling) when I boil them I never cover with water, only fill the pot up 1/4 and cook with the lid on.
  • Take your veggies out of the oven and place into an oven proof serving dish. Put the dish back into the oven to keep warm while the chicken browns.
  • Pour all the chicken cooking juices into the tray that the roast veggies were in and set on your elements on the stovetop (usually I need to turn on two elements). You want about 1.5 cups liquid, if the chicken cooking juices aren’t enough, add some cooking water from the broccoli to top it up. Let the liquid come to a boil. Squeeze out a roast garlic clove from its skin into the gravy. Add salt a pinch at a time, and taste after each addition until it’s the salty ness you like. Mix 1 Tablespoon of cornflour, tapioca or gluten free flour with 1 Tablespoon water, then add to the gravy. Mix well (you may need a whisk) and it will start to thicken as it continues to bubble. Once thickened, pour into a gravy boat to serve.
  • Your broccoli and cauliflower, should be done now and your chicken and veggies warm in the oven. Serve all together while hot!
  • Use the leftover chicken, gravy and vegetables in a chicken and veggie soup. Don’t forget to use the whole bird and make a broth with the bones.

Simple Nourishing Chicken Broth

This low histamine chicken broth recipe makes a perfect, nourishing base for soups. It can also be added into casseroles, rice dishes, gravies or anything really, it's very versatile.
Prep Time10 mins
Cook Time4 hrs
Course: dinner, Main Course, Soup
Cuisine: Gluten free
Keyword: broth, chicken broth, chicken stock, coconut free, dairy free, easy recipe, egg free, gluten free, grain free, main, main meal, nut free, paleo, soup, soy free, stock

Ingredients

  • 1 chicken carcass from a leftover roast chicken or bones from chicken wings / legs / thighs etc.
  • Enough water to cover the bones this will depend on the size of your chicken usually around 1L of water – filtered is best
  • A couple cloves of garlic omit the garlic if you’d like to sneak the broth into things like smoothies and ice blocks 😉
  • Optional: Leftover vegetable peelings, carrot or parnsip tops, celery stalks, and herbs.

Instructions

  • In a large stock pot, slow cooker or pressure cooker, cover the chicken bones with water.

Slow cook:

  • Set on high for 4 hours.

Pressure cook:

  • Set to pressure cook following your cookers directions, for 1 hour.

Stock pot:

  • Simmer on low in your stock pot for 3 – 4 hours. Keep an eye that it doesn't overflow, or reduce too much. You want the simmer to be enough to cook the bones but not so much that it's boiling.

  • Once the time is up, strain the liquid from the broth through a sieve into a large bowl or container. Discard the bones and garlic and keep the liquid. Pour it into a container, i usually use a glass jar. It keeps in the fridge for up to a week, especially if it remains sealed under a layer of fat on top. Or you can freeze it. I use my silicone muffin tray to freeze in blocks which I can take our and use as needed.
  • If you'd like to drink the broth as is, then add some salt, herbs, ginger, turmeric and garlic to taste, before heating and serving. Otherwsie you can use it as a soup base, to cook rice and pasta in, add to casseroles, curries, mince and stews. If you have it unflavoured you can even add it to smoothies and ice blocks!

The Beef Chow Mein was also a great budget friendly dinner that everyone loved. I split a 1kg pack of mince between this and the cottage pie.

The Thai curry was using this recipe – its really simple and only has a few ingredients, a great one to use if there’s limited time to get dinner on the table. That also made enough for leftovers the next day. The curry paste I got from the supermarket ended up containing soy which was a pain – we don’t need to avoid soy anymore – but that means obviously I cannot recommend that to you, in case you are! I’ve found the best Thai curry pastes come from an Asian store, fruit and veggie shops or Binn Inn – they usually come in large packets and have legitimately been made in Thailand. Just look our for processed vegetable oils as these are most likely soy.

The cottage pie I made, I did half cauliflower puree and half mashed potato on the top, as one of the kids and myself prefer cauliflower and the others prefer potato. Let me know if you’d like the cottage pie recipe and I can get that written up too.

The Chicken wings were easy, there was about 900g of chicken wings in the packet, I salted them and baked in the oven for about 40 minutes until they were crisp on the outside and cooked in the middle. I served with a homemade coleslaw (shredded cabbage, carrot and broccoli stalk), homemade mayo (this recipe is for egg free mayo – if you can have eggs, replace the aquafaba with one whole egg and use 1 cup oil) and rice, which I cooked double batch when I made the Thai curry, so only had to reheat it. There was enough leftovers for one extra meal.

The frittata was a simple dish using 8 eggs + 1/2 cup of water, beaten together with salt and pepper, and then adding whatever veggies I had left at the end of the week plus some greens from the garden.

So yeah, in a nutshell that is exactly how I fed my family of 5 healthy, gluten and dairy free for a week on a $150 budget! If you make any of my recipes, or use any of the tips or tricks here, or find them helpful, don’t forget to tag me on Facebook or Instagram. And if you have any questions about anything, don’t hesitate to ask!

Beef chow mein with noodles, beef mince, carrot, fresh coriander, broccoli and peanuts in a white bowl with chopsticks sitting on the side

Beef Chow Mein |Healthy | Gluten Free

This healthy, gluten free beef chow mein recipe comes from a collection of budget friendly recipes I created when I challenged myself to spend under $150 (NZD) on healthy, gluten and dairy free food – breakfast, lunch, dinner and snacks for my family of 5. I did it successfully and this was one of the recipes I used for our dinner that week.

There is quite a few ingredients – but all are necessary to perfect the delicate balance of salty, sweet, sour and spicy that makes this beef chow mein taste incredible.

There some ingredients you will see I have included as optional – one is peanut butter. My kids love me adding the peanut butter, it gives it a delicious satay tang, plus they are huge peanut butter fans. However I realise that peanut butter or satay isn’t everyones thing, or you might have peanut or nut allergies, in which case you can easily leave this out.

Gluten free soy sauce – make sure you use gluten free soy sauce to make it gluten free, or I use tamari.

Soy free / coconut free

To make this soy free, you can replace the soy sauce with coconut aminos. To make it coconut AND soy free (yes, we have been there!) you can use fish sauce instead.

This dish becomes budget friendly because you can actually use any meat you like. So grab whats already in your freezer, or whats on special this week! Mince was a great budget friendly option for us this week. Also you can use whatever veggies are in season, buying whats in season saves a lot of money. Broccoli, carrot and cabbage are great winter options. And if the fresh produce is really breaking the bank, then you can opt for frozen veggies instead. Change them up to suit your budget, season and your preferences.

If you make any of my recipes don’t forget to tag me on Facebook or Instagram. And if you have any questions about the recipe, or anything else don’t hesitate to ask!

Gluten Free Beef Chow Mein

This Gluten free beef chow mein is a budget friendly dish that the whole family will love. The sauce is made from scratch from simple ingredients that perfect the delecate balance of flavours. It is also dairy free, egg free, and can be made soy free and nut free as well.
Prep Time10 mins
Cook Time20 mins
Total Time30 mins
Course: dinner, Main Course
Cuisine: Chinese, Gluten free
Keyword: beef chow mein, coconut free, dairy free, easy recipe, egg free, gluten free, main, main meal, nut free
Servings: 5

Ingredients

  • 500g mince
  • 1 small onion – diced
  • 3 cups veggies (I used broccoli, cauliflower and mushrooms – capsicum, beans, peas, or any seasonal vegetable works fine)
  • 1 cup grated or juliened carrot
  • 1 cup finely shredded cabbage
  • 100g vermecelli rice noodles
  • 3 cloves garlic (finely diced or minced)
  • 1 tsp ginger (finely diced or minced)
  • ¼ cup sesame oil
  • ¼ cup Tamari / gluten free soy sauce (or coconut aminos for soy free)
  • ¼ cup maple syrup or other sweetener
  • ¼ cup lemon or lime juice
  • cup rice wine vinegar
  • ½ teaspoon sea salt
  • ¼ cup sesame seeds
  • Optional – ¼ cup peanut butter (highly reccomend!)
  • Optional – chilli to taste (we add chilli flakes and chilli oil after serving as our kids dont like spicy stuff!)

Instructions

  • Sauté the onion and garlic in the sesame oil. When softened, add the mince. Cook until browned.
  • Add the veggies, except the carrot and cabbage. Turn the heat down a little and place a lid on top. Leave for 5 minutes, for the veggies to cook.
  • Once the veggies are tender, remove the lid and add the ginger, tamari, sweetener, lemon juice, vinegar, salt and stir through.
  • Let the liquid reduce over a meduim heat, stirring often. Once the liquid is thickened (around the consistency of a thick soy sauce) add the peanut butter if using. Stir to combine.
  • Cover the rice noodles in boiled water until they are soft – this would usually take about a minute. Drain the noodles well.
  • Take the pot with the mince mixture in, off the heat and stir in the rice noodles, cabbage and carrot. Season with salt and pepper to taste.
  • Add the sesame seeds just before serving and optional garnish with fresh corriander and chilli to taste. My kids dont like chilli so we add chilli flakes and chilli oil to our plates after serving.
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10 of The Best Healthy Lunchbox Tips

So, you have come a long way, and there is hardly any packets in the lunchbox anymore. Lunch consists of: sandwich, apple, banana, yoghurt and a biscuit and muesli bar. Sounds ok huh?

What if I told you that there could be up to TEN hidden teaspoons of added sugar in this lunchbox? The recommended daily intake of added sugars from the World Health Organisation (WHO) is 4 teaspoons for a 5 year old (and a maximum of 8) this has just blown the sugar intake through the roof in just one meal! Let me explain; Fresh and fruity fruit yoghurt: just over 4 tsp sugar*. 2 superwine biscuits: 1 tsp. Muesli bar: around 3 tsp on average depending on the bar. Jam or honey in a sandwich: 1-2 tsp And just like that you have 8-10 tsp of added sugar all packaged up nicely in a healthy looking school lunch. Marmite and even some peanut butters have added sugar in them, it’s everywhere and unfortunately we have to become detectives to scope this out!

So what could you do about this? The trick is not to change everything at once, not only would that be hard work for you, your kids would probably be feeling pretty overwhelmed too if their lunchbox suddenly changed overnight. Make the changes small, easy for you to manage and sustainable – something you can do, and stick to, so you don’t look back. Some small, simple tips (choose one):

  • Replace the sandwich filling to something like ham, salami, egg or cheese Spreads: We slowly got rid of things like marmite and jam from the house, so they are not even an option.
  • Next time you run out of jam or Nutella, don’t replace it. We make homemade jam by blending up berries and adding some chia seeds and a tiny bit of honey.
  • Read the labels, make sure you get a peanut butter with no added sugar.
  • Try using plain Greek yoghurt instead of flavoured and add some fresh fruit to it, berries are perfect for that, fresh in summer, or frozen in winter. Even stirring a teaspoon of honey through plain yoghurt will have nothing on the sugar content of a brought flavoured pottle, you could try this with the intention to reduce it completely after a few weeks. For dairy free options, flavoured coconut yoghurt, does tend to have a little less sugar than some other dairy brands, but still check the label and try and choose the least sugar.

The lunchbox I described is one of the better lunches I’ve seen in the classroom, but just because it’s what everyone is packing, does it make it ok? (I’ll leave that to you to decide). There is no protien, fat or vegetables in this lunchbox – some ideal forms of fuel for little bodies to learn and grow. I will share my tips on how to add these in, in the coming weeks.

If you need a hand getting lunchboxes sorted I have created a Lunchbox Planner resource that comes with 70+ healthy, real food, minimal prep or fuss food ideas and 12 healthy lunchbox recipes. You can check it out here.

Come Back next week for tip #2 🙂

*one teaspoon of sugar is about 4 grams.

My kids lick the bowl has a fantastic blog post which shows how much sugar is in everyday items and how it correlates to WHO’s recommended daily intake. It’s been expertly calculated and put into easy to read visuals! I used this to help me with my lunchbox example. I highly recommend checking it out!

Once Upon a Time…

Once upon a time there was a Mum whose baby just didn’t seem quite right. He wasn’t doing the baby stuff that all the other parents said their babies were doing, he hated being fed, he loathed sleep and he cried a lot. Like screamed, all the time, way more than babies usually do. His Mum had never been a parent before, but deep down inside she knew that something wasn’t right, so she visited doctor after doctor trying to explain that she felt in the pit of her stomach that her baby’s body wasn’t happy and perhaps it had something to do with what she was feeding him. Only to be told, that what she was experiencing was normal. After a long time, someone finally listened and perhaps agreed that he might be reacting to what he was being fed, but only because his weight on the chart now reflected that he should be investigated further. From then on the Mum decided to listen to her gut more often and follow her instincts, and mostly, they lived happily ever after.

Twice upon a time there was a Mum who had learned to listen to her gut for the health of her baby. She gave birth to her second baby, who very quickly became unwell and in a lot of pain. She visited the doctor, again, even though she had very broken trust from past experiences and suggested that she knew her baby was reacting to food she had eaten. The doctor completely squandered her suggestion and told her that it was rubbish, and to eat whatever she liked and sent her on her way. The mum knew herself, she knew her baby, and she followed her instincts. And it turns out, she was right (again!). For two years she fought for the health of her son, and not only was she heard in the end, but she lifted his health above and beyond what was ever expected and used her experience to help inspire and empower other Mums who were also fighting to be heard. And for the most part, they lived happily ever after.

Thrice upon a time, there was a Mum who could tune in to that quiet inner voice, deep within her gut, the one full of doubt, but reason, despite being broken over and over. She trusted herself and her baby to lead them through the right path to health and happiness. When her third baby was a few weeks old, covered in fiery, sore skin, on her face, all over her back and down her arms. she ignored the suggestions of hormone rash and cradle cap, and she found a strange suggestion in the voice in her gut. (The voice told her that her baby was reacting to coconut, which really sucked because she was already dairy free and all the yummy treats were made from coconut!) She listened to it, and within three days her babies skin was miraculously clear. She continued to tune in to her most inner Mum voice and her baby has been the happiest and healthiest of all the children, and in fact at two years old has never needed to visit the doctor. And so far, they lived happily ever after.

The moral of the story? That voice inside your gut is there to be listened to, it knows more than you could ever imagine. No one is more expert on your child than you are. If someone tries to tell you it is normal, and you know it’s not, tune in to that voice and search for the answers you are looking for. If you are going to trust anything, trust that voice that holds your Mum instincts. Sometimes you might need to gently peel away layers of fear, or pride, or anxiety, to hear it properly, then when you get that niggling message, make sure you don’t ignore it, it’s trying to tell you something important.

The Lunchbox Mum

When Ashton was five and Felix was 6 months old, I quit my job to be a stay at home Mum. As I envisioned myself as a school Mum … a stay at home school Mum. I envisioned being that Mum that turns up to school pick up in activewear, because I’ve actually done yoga or gone for a run. The Mum with the slick pony tail who always knew what day it was, and sent her son off to school every day in clean clothes with a healthy 100% homemade packed lunch. The Mum who turned up to help out in class occasionally and paid the school fees on time. The Mum who was always smiling, and organised, with a clear head and a clean car.

The last two years has taught me, that I am in fact, none of those Mums! I’m the Mum that stays in the car at school drop off because she is wearing her slippers, and the toddler is in his pyjamas. I’m the Mum who may have actually been for a walk or a run, but is wearing track pants because she hasn’t shaved her legs in 6 months. I’m the Mum with the un-brushed messy bun, probably still up from overnight, and clothes covered in baby puke, snot and possibly poop, maybe chocolate – but probably poop. I’m the Mum who hasn’t been in to meet the new teacher except through the car window one time. I’m the Mum whose son goes to school regularly wearing odd socks, and on occasion, odd shoes. I’m The Mum who has no idea what day it is, but can tell the time by how heavy her eyes feel. And the Mum who can’t see the floor of her car (last time I checked there was an open jar of mayonnaise in the back seat). But I am also the Mum who tries her best to send her boy to school everyday with a lunchbox made with love. Love doesn’t have to be homemade, or tidy, and it doesn’t have to be perfect. Love just has to try it’s best.

Here is what it looks like when I am that Mum, the one who is messy, unorganised, covered in baby excretions, and tired beyond belief, that tries to send her boys off with a nourishing lunchbox every day. My lunchboxes aren’t perfect, they are not 100% homemade, they are made quickly, on little sleep, and sometimes empty cupboards. When my boys open their lunchboxes, I hope that they see the love.

Don’t worry about perfection, because even the most experienced of us don’t get it right, all the time. Be inspired to pack lunchboxes out of love and the kids will have everything they need 💞

And if you need a little helping hand, this resource I created helped to make sure the kids had somewhat healthy lunchboxes packed daily, in my manic attempt to get everyone out the door on time

https://mailchi.mp/b75eda91781a/chefashton_lunchboxplanner?fbclid=IwAR2zWqBO66IABaMZNqWiyNpDMObZCwe_TTv5MeQgwt92_PsHLadMMrU41Eo

Gluten, dairy and egg free vanilla cake

We made this gluten, dairy and egg free vanilla cake for our son’s birthday this year. Our youngest is sensitive to cocoa, all the cakes I usually make are chocolate cakes (because who doesn’t love chocolate cake!) I iced ours with a ‘lower sugar’ butter cream icing by substituting half of the icing sugar with tapioca, no one even noticed! (Except me, I am sensitive to sugar and it still gave me a headache – I prefer this lower sugar option here).

I found natural food colouring and sprinkles from Naturally Bespoke Cakes, I was really happy with them and it beats turning my kitchen into a science lab trying to concoct my own natural food colouring experiments as I’ve done in previous years.

If you are after a chocolate cake you can find some chocolate cake options here.

You Need

3 c almond meal
1 c tapioca flour
3/4 c coconut sugar (or any granulated sugar you prefer)
1/4 c ground flaxseed
2 Tbsp vanilla extract
1 cup almond milk
3 tsp baking powder
1/2 cup oil

What to do

Preheat oven to 180 c bake. Line the bottom of a springform cake tin with baking paper. Grease both the baking paper and the sides of the tin. (I use olive oil spray) My cake tin is about 19cm diameter.

Put all the ingredients into a bowl and mix! Until well combined. That easy!

Pour into your greased cake tin and put in the middle of the oven for 30 – 35 minutes, or until cooked in the centre. Let rest for 5 minutes in the tin. Gently release the sides and turn out onto a baking rack to cool.

This will make a double layered cake if you separate into two lots and cook as two cakes. Each cake will take 20 – 25 minutes, or until cooked in the centre.

Freezes well and can take out and ice while frozen then let it thaw for an hour or two before serving. I also put the leftovers back in the freezer, and they were delicious from frozen, or thawed throughout the following week.

 

Hey there, Allergy Mama

Hey there allergy Mama,

I see you, up late at night making safe cupcakes to take to the birthday celebration tomorrow. 

I see you, reading all the food labels at the supermarket and quizzing the restaurant staff with tireless questions. 

I see you, wondering was it food? Which food was it, or is it just a tummy bug? I know – the guessing game is just so tiresome. 

I see you, lying awake at night worrying, feeling guilt. The guilt. It’s relentless. Did I do this to my child? Could I have done something better? Could I have prevented that reaction? Could I be doing more to help? 

I see you, hide your disappointment that your child didn’t get invited, because of his allergies. That she missed out, yet again, because of her allergies. 

I see you, in the kitchen. Always in the kitchen, planning, baking, preparing, chopping, cooking. So much food prep, but without it, they would suffer. 

I see you, holding open tired eyes, making yet another dinner when you wish you could just order take out, like everyone else. 

I see you, with a forced smile and a heavy heart, as you reply ‘no thanks, we can’t eat that’ for the hundredth time.

I see you, do your best to mend a child’s broken heart, as they face the disappointment of not being able to join in, or eat the food. While you silently pick up the shattered pieces of your own heart. 

I see you, holding your screaming baby, dropping silent tears down his back, because you know, that this road ahead will be long. 

I see you. And I just wanted to say thank you. Thank you for mending broken hearts with your homemade cupcakes. Thank you for showing up, everyday, even when it feels too hard. Thank you for asking the hard questions, and sharing the harsh truths. You were chosen for this, because you are strong enough, you are smart enough and you are brave enough. 

I was you. I am you. We are all in this together. Thank you for joining me in this beautiful community here, full of love, support and of course healthy, allergy friendly food. 

If you want a space to connect and have a chat, you can find me here

Love and Peace,

Kayla

Why we left behind our quarter acre dream

While most people tend to outgrow their houses when they add to the tribe, our family of five has just downsized! We have left behind a quarter acre land with chickens, bees, fruit trees, berry bushes, veggie garden, outdoor kitchen area and plenty of (neglected) grass and sheds, and large 1920s bungalow. Instead we have downsized to a section half the size and a nice tidy little house across town (that’s five minutes away, for you city folk!)

While leaving behind a lifestyle that enabled us to supply our own eggs, honey, fruit and veggies was a little sad, while we were there we were left with little time to focus on the things we love most. Our house was enormous but cold, drafty and old. we spent a lot of time sorting fire wood to heat the place and it took ages to clean and tidy even after we decluttered nearly half our possessions. I am often home alone with the kids, for sometimes weeks at a time with little notice, I just didn’t have time to upkeep such a big section, all the pets, and the house, let alone keep the kids alive and make sure they have allergy friendly food made for each meal. It was really stressful trying to juggle everything.

Our new house still has enough backyard for the kids and dog to play, for a small veggie garden and a green house (and maybe a couple chooks if I can convince Chef Dad 😆). The neighbors behind us have land with fejoa trees along our whole fence line 🙌. Our house is warm and dry and easy to heat and set out so i can watch the kids play outside while I’m in the kitchen. Really hoping less space means less maintenance and upkeep and therefore more time to do the things that we love. Which for me is blogging, cooking and writing! And of course spending time with the kids without having to worry about the wall that needs painting and the fence that’s going to fall down.

In our case, bigger isn’t always better. Sometimes it might sound like someone is living the dream, but you just don’t know, behind the scenes what sort of stress is being created to upkeep that life. It was a huge decision to admit that we were in too deep, and there was blood sweat and tears involved in the buying, selling and moving process. In fact I think I’m still in fight or flight, but Just in this short week post move, I’m realising how much of a valuable decision we have made. So here’s to onwards and upwards, moving on to bigger (but actually smaller) and better things, and hopefully more free time to do the things that matter to us most.

Beautiful Lines

When I saw this photo the first thing I noticed was the lines etched into my face, that didn’t exist 5 years ago. It’s not that I have a problem with lines on my face, they just took me by surprise as I haven’t really taken the time to study my face in the last five years! Lines that at times have felt like they bear the weight of the world. Lines that carry the stress of being responsible for three little beings. Lines that carry worries about health, and allergies and how I’m going to protect my kids and keep them safe from the extra challenges of living in a world where food can make them very sick.

All these thoughts stampede through my mind in a fleeting moment. Before I realise, that when I look at the faces of others, first, I see beauty, wisdom, kindness and compassion. I don’t know why society tells us that ageing should be reversed because it’s actually the most beautiful thing.

As we get older we harbour more experiences that can wear us down, and sometimes even threaten to break us. But as the universe so kindly gives us more time, every day that passes we have a chance to heal, to love and to reconnect with life. The experiences might leave lines, or scars on our bodies, or in our hearts, that then become a reminder that we are even more wise, experienced and magnificent than yesterday. ⠀

So then, I looked again. And I saw love, connection, pure and true happiness, wisdom and life. I saw a moment in time that I will treasure forever. ⠀
Having Hazel has been such a healing experience for me, while she hasn’t made the scars of feeding tubes and hospital visits, appointments and medications, elimination diets and exclusion disappear. She has helped me see how beautiful they are to be a part of me. ⠀

Just remember that every day we grow older, we are gifted another day to feel love, and while it might not cover the marks from the past it will use them to etch a path to a brighter future 💗⠀